How to deal with people who just don't listen

Be Clear and Concise

Make your points clearly and directly. Avoid rambling or using complex language that might confuse the listener.

Active Listening

Model good listening behavior yourself. Show that you’re engaged and attentive, which might encourage the other person to reciprocate.

Ask Questions

Sometimes, asking questions can help ensure that the other person is following the conversation and encourage them to listen more closely.

Set Boundaries

If someone consistently doesn’t listen, it might be necessary to set boundaries about how and when you’re willing to engage with them.

Seek Feedback

Try to understand why they might not be listening. There could be underlying issues or misunderstandings that need to be addressed.

Choose the Right Time

Sometimes, people are more receptive when they’re not distracted or stressed. Find a suitable time to discuss important matters.

Stay Calm

Keep your composure even if you’re frustrated. Responding with anger or frustration can make the situation worse.

Use Non-Verbal Cues

Sometimes body language, eye contact, and other non-verbal signals can help reinforce your message and show that you expect to be heard.